Farewell My Sweet Lady

It's been well over a month since I've posted a blog entry.  As they say -- sometimes life just gets in the way.  This past Saturday, we escorted my grandmother, the late Claries Toomer Bennett, to her final earthly resting place in Hope Mills, NC.  She was the Matriach of the Bennett family, and her life had a profound effect on every person who came within her reach.  

I would be remiss if I didn't dedicate this entry to her.  The picture above is of my Grandma taken in the late 1940's . . . she was in her 20's.  This picture surfaced over the weekend as people from near and far gathered at her home to celebrate her life.  Over the years, many have asked me where my sense of fashion and style originated.  I immediately respond "from my mother," who is the epitome of class and sophistication.  When I saw this picture only hours before my Grandma's "Homegoing Celebration," I realized it originated with my Grandma.  In addition to teaching my mother the virtues of unconditional love and respect, she clearly passed down the attributes of what it means to look like a Lady!

Grandma, you are missed, but never will you be forgotten.  I end this blog the way I ended my tribute to her on Saturday . . . "Rejoice my sweet lady. Heaven is happy to welcome one of its finest angels back home." 

Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Kicks Off Tomorrow at its New Location - Lincoln Center's Damrosch Park

(Photo from stylelist.com)

I have two favorite times of the year -- February and September. Is it because my favorite holidays are Valentine's Day and Labor Day? Absolutely not! It's because those months include two weeks out of the year when every fashionista feels like she's died and gone to heaven: Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week! And this year provides a tee bit more excitement because after 18 years at Bryant Park (I must say attending my last show there last season was a little bittersweet), the shows have moved to Lincoln Center. I feel like a kid waking up on Christmas morning -- I know I loved all of the presents under the tree last year, but I'm hoping this year's presents will be even better!

The move to Lincoln Center has brought about many firsts, not the least of which is Fashion GPS, a web-based system rolled out by IMG Fashion (the producer of MBFW) that over 80% of the designers showing at the tents have opted to use. Instead of those often lavish paper invitations being sent in the mail, PR firms emailed invitations which contain a link for you to go online and RSVP with a touch of a button. You are immediately sent an email containing a confirmation number (gone are the days when you wonder whether or not your RSVP by email or voicemail was ever received), and . . . drumroll please . . . a barcode to be scanned at one of 9 kiosks on site! (The barcode can even be scanned right from your PDA!) These kiosks will spit out your seating assignment, and off you go to your show. They will even have computer terminals and printers available if you happen to forget to bring your confirmation email with you. IMG is hoping that this will dramatically cut down those long lines (which look more like a sea of people huddled together) you wait in to check in with a PR person frantically looking through a binder filled with names. (Of course the PR teams will still be on hand to handle the real problems and the computer glitches.)

While this to me is the biggest and most dramatic change, the new location now includes a significantly larger space, lounge-style seating in the lobby area to wait around between shows (music to my feet!), two interior courtyards, wireless internet access, and a 4th venue (venue names are now from largest to smallest: "The Theatre," "The Stage," "The Studio," and "The Box"). The Theatre can seat almost 1,000 people and can accommodate another 400 standing; The Stage will fit more than 800 fashionistas; The Studio has seats for 390 plus standing room; and The Box -- a smaller room for designer presentations, industry forums and press conferences -- can hold 450 standing. It also appears as though the chairs in the venues have been replaced with stadium style bench seating, no doubt one of the reasons they are able to accommodate more people.

Although I will miss the first day of shows tomorrow (last day of my Bermuda vacation), I hit the ground running before daybreak on Friday morning to make it to NYC in time for my first show at 9:30 am. My day starts off with Tadashi Shoji, followed by Duckie Brown, Georges Chakra, and Ports 1961. Hopefully I will get a quick nap in at some time so I can be ready for all of the Fashion's Night Out festivities!

Lanvin and H&M Collaborate!

This is probably one of the most exciting rumors to be confirmed in a while! Yesterday WWD (THE voice of the fashion industry) tweeted that we might be seeing yet another fabulous collaboration that would potentially knock our socks off, and today they have come back to say it is indeed true. On November 23, Lanvin for H&M will hit approximately 200 stores - hopefully one near you!

Lanvin is the newest designer to join the ranks of guest star designers like Stella McCartney, Karl Lagerfeld, Zac Posen, and Anna Sui who have created limited edition "cheap chic" lines for cost-friendly chains like H&M and Target. What better news could a fashionista receive right before the last official weekend of summer when the reality of needing to spruce up the fall wardrobe really begins to set in?

If you are one of millions of women like myself who simply can't wait to get your hands on a few of these pieces, I strongly suggest you mark the date on your calendar and plot out your course of action. This collection is likely to sell out in nano seconds!

THINK GREEN!

No, I'm not talking about recycling! Green is without a doubt the go-to hue for the fall season. Now, I must admit . . . just 2 years ago you would not have caught me dead in the color. Although I may have loved the piece, if the color was green, the first thing out of my mouth was: "I don't do green!" I think the color routinely reminded me of Emerald City in "The Wizard of Oz," not exactly the place you reflect upon when you think about must have fashion trends.

Fast forward to last fall when I became somewhat obsessed with the color after Gucci did this beyond fab snakeskin bag in forest green. It literally took my breath away. After seeing this magnificent creation, I began embracing that particular shade as a neutral that could be worn with black, navy, brown, or tan. The next thing I knew I was in Soho at one of my favorite shoe boutiques, Keito, purchasing a pair of "too fierce" platform leather and suede booties in the hue. The end result has been a love connection that was well overdue!

From fabulous ponte dresses to Chanel inspired tweed jackets to cashmere cardigans and platform pumps - you will definitely find that must have piece to add to your wardrobe. After all, it can be easy being green.

bebe Launches Petite Line!

We asked and apparently bebe finally listened! This week the brand known for its uber chic styles officially launched its petite line, a much needed remedy for those of us who must get every pair of pants we purchase hemmed!

The petite selections are targeted to women 5'4" and under, and include jackets, pants, and jeans. In the past, bebe has occasionally done a few of their pants in petite lengths, but the selection has been quite limited. By the time you realized the item was sold in petite sizes, they were completely sold out.

The line currently includes 11 pieces, and is available exclusively at bebe.com.

5 Easy Steps to a Fiercely Organized Wardrobe

Ever step into your closet and feel like you have nothing to wear?  It may not be just because you have become bored with your current wardrobe. More likely than not, it's because you can't see everything your current wardrobe has to offer.  Most of us don't go into our kitchen pulling out every drawer and frantically searching for the forks, knives, and spoons.  Why? Because each of the utensils has its place in what you refer to as the "silverware drawer."  Your closet should reflect the same organization! You can't expect to look fashionable on a daily basis if every morning you're searching for that one piece to make your outfit pop and you NEVER find it. If you want to make getting dressed as simple as it should be, follow these guidelines for a well organized wardrobe.

1. Separate your wardrobe by season.  Have an area for your spring/summer clothes and another area for your fall/winter clothes.  (If you're anything like me, you probably have separate closets for each season!)

2.  Within each season, separate your casual, work, and "After 5" clothes.  This will make it easier on those days you oversleep and need to pull together an outfit for work in a nano second.

3.  Sort your clothes by type.  All of your shirts should be together, skirts, pants, jackets, etc.  I would also encourage you to further break this down into groupings.  For example, if you are organizing your shirts, place your sleeveless tops together, followed by your short-sleeved tops and then your long-sleeved tops.

4.  Color coordinate!  Group your white shirts together, followed by your cream shirts, moving from your light shades to your darker shades, and ending with black.  Repeat this step for each type of clothing.

5.  Organize your shoes so you can see them.  If there's not enough space in your closet to display all of them, keep the shoes you tend to wear most often in plain sight.  You should store the others in either their original boxes or clear plastic boxes.  Place a photograph on the box so you can easily identify the shoes in each box. 

One more thing - and this has nothing to do with how you organize your closet, but I would be remiss if I didn't address it now.  Get rid of the wire hangers . . . all of them!  If you care about the quality of the clothes you buy, then you should care about how well you maintain them.  Wire hangers are meant to transport your clothes from the dry cleaners to your closet.  After they have served this purpose, they should be disposed of properly (or recycled).  They are the quickest and easiest way to cause your clothing to lose its shape (because they can't support the weight of most garments) and to get stains (they rust over time).  Invest in a heavy duty hanger.  I prefer wood, but there are some high quality plastic ones on the market as well.  If space is an issue (wood and plastic hangers do take up quite a bit of space), try Real Simple Slimline Hangers.  Whatever you decide, just throw away the wires!  Your clothes will thank you, and so will I!

A Sneak Peak at Fall 2010

Photo from style.com

Fashion waits for no one ladies! Although we just participated in 4th of July festivities this past weekend, and temperatures are soaring into the 100's in some areas of the northeast this week, fall clothing has already hit the stores. I know - I know: it's hard to think about trying on that gorgeous shearling or fur-trimmed leather when you're sweating bullets. However, if you wait until the first frost hits to begin scooping up those must have items for the season, you will be disappointed. So for you brave souls who will risk your bronzer dripping down your face in the interest of fashion, here's a quick preview of some of the must have items for the fall.

While this is the third fall season that grey and shades of plum have ruled the runway, there's a new kid on the block: navy! Many designers have put their individual spin on the actual shade of blue, so be on the lookout for deep blues with a hint of purple as well as gorgeous shades of sapphire blue. Since nude and blush tones were a big trend for Spring 2010, it seems fitting that the shade has darkened a bit for fall, and camel has emerged. We're seeing this shade in everything from chic platform boots to fabulous cashmere coats and satchel handbags.

By far one of my favorite trends of the season is texture. Tweeds are very strong, and you will see many wardrobe staples blending leather, suede, wool, and nylon. I must say that Versace did it best in this ultra funky coat (pictured above)they sent down the runway at the Nordstrom Fall 2010 Designer Preview Runway Show. And speaking of textures, sweater dressing has made a strong comeback from chunky knit coats to dresses and even boots!

Finally, I am loving all of the booties we're seeing - particularly the lace fronts! Cross-body bags, both mini and full-sized, are a big trend that carried over from the spring, and are joined by structured hand-held doctor bags. As far as accessories are concerned, "more is more," so layer those bangles and necklaces to continue looking "fashion fierce" once the temperature drops. Happy Shopping!

(P.S. You can pick up several of these trends at the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale this month. But hurry - the presale has already started!)